How to Heal from an Unexpected Breakup Without Closure

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In April, I recorded a video on how to heal from an unexpected breakup without closure because at that time, I was getting a lot of messages from different women struggling with healing from breakups, closure and letting go. I may be 6 months late publishing the video, but I’m trusting and believing this will still help people who are struggling in this area. I myself have experienced ghosting, unexpected breakups with someone I thought I would marry, heartbreak, situationships etc..YOU NAME IT. Since I have been able to successfully overcome & heal from all of those painful seasons, I wanted to make a video to help someone who was struggling in that season.

In the video below, I share my unexpected, closure-less breakup story + give you 7 practical steps toward healing. Always remember: you are NEVER alone, this is just a SEASON and there is victory, power, real love & greater things on the other side of your heartbreak! I'm a living testimony to God's healing, restoration & elevation! Keep the faith!

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How I Broke My Situationship Curse

"Sometimes in life, your situation will keep repeating itself until you've learned your lesson."

I remember feeling shocked and disappointed as I was reading my diary entries from more than a year ago.  Here I was still dealing with the same mess--situationships.  More specifically, I kept falling for men who were emotionally unavailable to me.  One minute we would be super close then the next minute they were "too busy" (cycle repeats).  I found myself on the same emotional roller coaster, going back and forth between telling myself "we're just friends" to wondering "what are we?".  I think one of the main reasons good quality Queens foolishly remain in situationships is the idea of "what if".

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An Open Letter to the Guy I Wanted

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Everyone sees me, except you.  Everyone sees our potential, except you.  Everyone sees the sincerity of my heart, except you.  Till this day I'll never know why you were blinded to a love so obvious, consistent and pure.  Here you had a woman and close friend who's always had your back and would've done anything for you.  My loyalty had no expiration and my support was unwavering.  But despite me fitting the perfect mold of your ideal woman, you still didn't give us a real chance.

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