Fighting sexual temptation is not easy at all.  I've been doing it for almost 4 years.  Though it's been a challenge and struggle at times, it's been a huge blessing for me.  I can't think of a man that I regret not having sex with.  When I look back on all the men I've dated these past few years, I don't think "Geez!  I should've had sex with him.  I made a huge mistake not giving him my body & making him 'another number'!"   At the end of the day, when the "honeymoon phase" was over, I was able to see their true colors loud and clear.  Withholding sex gave me better judgement and as a result it was easier for me to walk away from peasants.  Now please don't get it twisted.  I'm human--I get urges & have desires.