How to Heal from an Unexpected Breakup Without Closure

In April, I recorded a video on how to heal from an unexpected breakup without closure because at that time, I was getting a lot of messages from different women struggling with healing from breakups, closure and letting go. I may be 6 months late publishing the video, but I’m trusting and believing this will still help people who are struggling in this area. I myself have experienced ghosting, unexpected breakups with someone I thought I would marry, heartbreak, situationships etc..YOU NAME IT. Since I have been able to successfully overcome & heal from all of those painful seasons, I wanted to make a video to help someone who was struggling in that season.

In the video below, I share my unexpected, closure-less breakup story + give you 7 practical steps toward healing. Always remember: you are NEVER alone, this is just a SEASON and there is victory, power, real love & greater things on the other side of your heartbreak! I'm a living testimony to God's healing, restoration & elevation! Keep the faith!

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